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I was born and raised in the Philippines, a small country in the shape of an upside down "Y" in Southeast Asia.I moved to New York when I was 14 and desperately tried to find a balance between my culture and the new unfamiliar Western culture.

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A lot of foreigners come to find a Filipina to love and care for them. we know a lot of foreigners come to take advantage of Filipina girls (that hurts me to, it is sick and I dream of the day that changes). In some cases people will be so vocal about it, that it can be uncomfortable.

I understand that it would be common to assume that I would be here due to a Filipina. I will always take time to respond to people who make those comments in a positive way.

They believe that is the biggest reason why I should want to be here. I explain the amazing things that make me want to be here and parts of this culture that inspire me so much.

That it would be the number one reason why a foreigner would ever want to call the Philippines home. I guess it is part of the reason why I get scared to date a Filipina.

I think sometimes when I meet girls here my mind goes crazy! For me even though I may only inspire one more person to shift their perspective… maybe it will inspire foreigners who are here for girls (for the wrong reasons) to at THE VERY LEAST respect this culture and these beautiful women.

Instantly their minds will drift back to the thought that being with a Filipina is the only reason one would want to stay in the Philippines. These situations and conversations with locals, they really do happen to me quite often. share those reasons first and foremost with foreigners and each other…

Now I’d like to share with you a very common conversation I have. It is safe to say that I have interacted with a lot of everyday Filipinos and Filipinas. While looking at the vegetables a few of the vendors said in Bisaya… Again I have nothing wrong with why individuals think that way, because again, yes lots of foreigners who are here do have girlfriends, or wives.

Here is a very common first interaction (which I would have in either Bisaya or Tagalog): Why? We all know that a lot of foreigners come to the Philippines because they have met a Filipina, have a Filipina Girlfriend, or have a Filipina Wife. But it occurs EVERY time I am hanging out with a girl who is simply just a friend of mine, and usually in a very open and vocal way; the girls will be stereotyped as being attached to me.

Although a Filipina may not strictly adhere to the Catholicism, she would find it derogatory if you nitpick on her faith because it is part of a tradition handed down to her by her parents or guardians, and that relationship is more sacred to her. Better yet, enlist her family members as your allies for you to get closer to her Filipina heart! Remember we have two Filipinas as previous presidents.

Although the first was most loved (Cory Aquino) and the last was most hated (Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo), which is another story, this mere fact proves that you should treat your Pinay date as an equal, if you do not, she will regard it as an insult and you'd probably miss out on your chances to have a pretty, funny, and sexy but innocent partner-in-life.

Make a good impression, for as they say, the first ones really last. A Pinay friend has once said to me: there are two bad topics to bring out when one is drinking. And still, don't step beyond the bounds of a friendly discourse. Sometimes, it just maybe the most important thing in the world for us.

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