Dating women on the rebound
Is the Gay Girl only using that as an excuse to get out of a relationship she wasn’t that into to begin with? And I’m pretty sure at least some of you of guilty of doing this too, but tell us why you did it? Everyone’s first love is the hardest to get over, it may even be twice as hard with your first lesbian love. There are plenty of lesbians in the sea that won’t high tail it out of there at the first sign of commitment.
Because if you ask me, Ex-Straighty has done about everything she can do to prove it’s more then a phase. Unfortunately it’s three different ladies all with strikingly similar story lines. By “this” I mean, having affairs with married women (straight or gay it doesn’t matter) and then the second the woman leaves her relationship for the gay girl, she freaks out and leaves her! Good luck my dears, no one ever said being a lesbian was easy. 😉 Share on Facebook I have been married to a man believe it or not but I always knew I was gay.
If you come upon a picture of your ex and it brings up fond memories that put a smile on your face, you may have moved past the hurt of your break up.
You probably should not start dating again until you are ready and able to accept a new romance partner on his or her own terms.
Going through a relationship break up can be a very difficult time in your life.
But Gay Girl freaks out, accuses Ex-Straighty of still being straight and goes as far as to accuse her of being in a “phase.” So in a lame attempt to save herself some heartache, Miss Lezzy up and leaves Ex-Straighty high and dry!
Now Ex-Straighty is heart broken and devastated over the loss of her true love.
And while I think it is wrong for lesbians to leave their straight loves in the dust (probably due to the pressures of dealing with the ex hubby and new instant family with children), I also believe it is the responsibility of the married woman who chose to step out on her marriage with ANYONE be it gay or another man, to own it and woman-up. Yes you thought you loved this woman but evidently you were enamored with lust or something else because you did not give it enough time to find out if she was serious about you, or you did not give your relationship the respect to end it on YOUR terms and for the right reasons. And frankly I know some men who would do better, and that pains me to say.
When you break up a marriage,you have to be sure it is what you want because nothing in life in guaranteed. (well except that life will end and even then you don’t know when..) Lesbians who prey upon moms with children better start learning to accept the responsibility that comes with said children. If you would toss over a potential suitor for the chance to talk to your ex, your heart is probably still invested in your past relationship. If it would change your focus from your date to your ex, it may be an indication that you are not quite over the break up of the relationship.If you would take the call from the potential suitor and tell your ex that you will call them back, you are probably in a good place to start dating again. If you cant, you probably arent ready to start dating.If it causes you think about your past relationship and brings you down, you probably need to take more time to come to terms with the break up.If love songs bring about thoughts and hopes for a new love, that may be a good indication that you are ready to start dating again.Does she go running back to her hubby and life as a man’s wife? She stands her ground and tries to convince her lesbian love that she is gay, was maybe always was gay but has just recently realized it.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating