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I hated scanning bars, trying to identify a girl with whom I’d exchanged a few glib texts.

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I've tried dating apps everywhere from Karachi to New York City.

But I gave up my sapphic romantic pursuits on hookup apps a while ago.

If and when I did find the person I was actually supposed to be meeting, how were we expected to greet each other — hug? the classic, coolly nonchalant head bob that conveys “why yes, I am gay, and I acknowledge that you are too”?

The fleeting predate clumsiness, in the end, was always a small price to pay.

Maybe we won’t share anything beyond L Word references, or Kristen Stewart crushes, or a strong mutual dislike for the gaggle of straight bros making too much noise the next table over — chances are, on a first date, we’ll find something to hold onto.

An app’s algorithms have alerted us to at least the base potential of compatibility; after that, rolling with it is up to us.

I had to be sure I wasn’t misidentified as a friendly straight girl, who are notorious accidental flirters.

No, I’m not brushing against your forearm and smiling a lot because I’m friendly, I have wanted to say too many times. Eventually I learned to name-drop lesbianism in casual conversation so I’d avoid making a complete flirting fool of myself.

Zoosk is exploding in popularity with LGBT singles, and it boasts one of the slickest apps on the market.

Getting started is free and easy, as is finding like-minded singles in and around any zip code.

I wasn’t wary of going home with strangers the same way I might have been if I was meeting up with guys.

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