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The majority of guys are poor communicators but when a guy wants to talk to you, he’ll do just that.
So if I’m sending this text I’m pretty explicitly trying to pump the brakes or avoid you all together.” – Vish, 26, New York “Had a good time.
Got a lot of things happening…don’t want to lose the relationship but other commitments come first at this stage of the relationship.” –Jeremy, 26, New York Text message: “Hey, what’s up?
He’s probably just a nice guy that would rather you didn’t die.
Translation: ‘In case you hadn’t noticed, I’m a nice guy.’” –Kevin, 26, Brooklyn Text message: You ask him to confirm plans he mentioned on your last date and he replies with, “I don’t know yet. Give me 10 minutes to Google something.” –Jeremy, 26, North Carolina “I don’t want to tell you no. I will not write you a sonnet.” –Jake, 27, South Carolina “Yikes, save the long-form for emails or face-to-face, will ya? Everyone has a second to respond to a text, don’t they?? And work is really rough and I’ve been non-stop all day and this is the first chance I got to get back to you.
” What we think: Is it bad to meet up that late for a first date? But around my place portrays a different meaning.” -Jake, 27, South Carolina Text message: “I had a lot of fun last night.
I’m going to be really busy at work for the next few weeks.” What we think: He’s going to be busy for a few weeks, that’s fine!
Playing it by ear is pretty universal for ‘I’ve got other things I want to do but if that falls through then I’ll text you.’” –Vish, 26, New York Text message: You send him a long, sweet text message and he responds with, “Ha, that’s great.” Or something really short, doesn’t ask a question to continue the conversation. It doesn’t mean they do not want to talk to you just that they wanted to wait until they had time to really talk to you.” –Sean, 26, Florida “Eh. Although, if that’s kind of his m/o he’s totally sending out casual vibes.” –Kevin, 26, Brooklyn What men think about that overanalyzing of texting and their best advice on how to calm down – and let it happen!
People look at their phones while they are busy and can’t text back. “Women of course overanalyze, but guys aren’t that smart. What if he really is a great guy but actually is busy with work for a few weeks, that happens to me all the time.” –Jeremy, 27, New York “You are your own worst enemy.
We can’t seem too eager or it’ll run the lady away… If you can’t do that, give him a ring and get a vibe while you’re talking.
too distant and it’s just a game.” –Jeremy, 26, North Carolina “Stop overanalyzing and remember that actions and the way you’re being treated are far better indicators than words.” –Jake, 27, South Carolina “OK, look – the further you go from good ol’ face-to-face interaction, the more opportunity there is for misunderstanding and misinterpretation. The thing about texting is that it’s composed – we’re editing what we say, rephrasing things, intentionally leaving out punctuation…the point is, this form of communication is inherently unrepresentative.
As if communication between men and women isn’t hard enough…now we all get to contend with the added mysteries that go along with texting.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating