Overweight woman dating

Whether you are a size 2 or 22 or 32 or 58 if you do not truly love yourself and are at peace with who you are, then it is going to be incredibly challenging to find love and happiness.

There are so many great ways to visually and physically express you do take care of yourself and care about your appearance.

One of the biggest mistakes I see overweight singles make is that they are overly focused on their size.

I have had clients come to me and share that they believe that they cannot find love because every date they go on ends with the other person not interested in them because they are fat.

Then as we get further into the coaching session I discover there were far more reasons than the person’s weight that lead to the lack of mutual attraction. Understand that being an overweight single person does not make you unattractive.

Yes, I go shopping and I see many of the dreadful non-options out there.

Don’t take the easy route and simply go with the crap out there because you didn’t want to invest in the time to look your very best.

I chuckled recently when a client of mine called me the Energizer Bunny in response to a statement I made about a singles event that I was hosting in Minneapolis, MN.

There is a big misconception that fat people are not active and don’t have energy; it is up to you to show people otherwise. I see far to many overweight singles wearing clothing that does not flatter them.

This message didn’t fall on deaf ears and I know, I am not alone.

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